Am I the right
consultant
for you?
There are so many coaches, consultants, etc out there, so before you devote money, time, and energy you want to know you have the right fit! I’m not right for everyone, so here are a list of some of the ways you might know we’re a good fit (or not).
The next step is to book a free 20 min intro call, and we’ll meet, get to know each other and what you’re looking for, answer your questions, without any pressure. If I’m not the right person for you, I’ll do my best to direct you toward resources or professionals that can help.
We might be a good fit if…
You believe that healing in relationships is a revolutionary act and want your close relationships to be part of building a better world
You’re a polyamorous parent who wants to balance having the adult relationships you want while making sure your children’s needs are a priority
You want an “identity doula” to help you embrace and embody parts of yourself that have been hidden or minimized in order to fit in
You’re navigating an unconventional life path (IE homeschooling, non-traditional relationship structures, consent based parenting) and feel that many of the people in your life don’t “get it” and are therefore unable to support you when you have challenges
You’re parenting a challenging child and want to figure out how to have more calm and less conflict so that you and your child both get your needs met and thrive
You want to explore attachment, relational patterns, boundaries, and communication in order to grow
You’re dealing with challenges in your relationship with yourself, a partner, or a child, and you want to find connection, joy, and ease in the relationship through greater understanding and compassion- without pathologizing anyone involved
We might not be a good fit if…
You have complex mental health diagnoses that need the support of a licensed therapist
You don’t want to take a deep and vulnerable look at yourself and your relationships in order to grow
You want to change someone else without looking at your own part in the relationship
You want “quick fixes” that are focused on extinguishing behaviors instead of long term relational health
You’re actively experiencing abuse (please get yourself safe before engaging in healing work!)
You believe your, your partner(s), or your child’s identities are wrong or unacceptable
Services
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50 min sessions
Individual sessions meet you where you are. They are customized to your experiences, needs, and goals, because you deserve to live a life deeply rooted in and aligned with the fullness of who you are, your values, and your passions. You deserve relationships that feel fulfilling and authentic, where your needs are met, your boundaries are respected, and you feel deeply connected.
Prepaid packages of 5 and 10 available at a discount.
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1 hour, group size varies
A free, twice monthly discussion and support group for polyamorous parents to build community, ask questions, and get support on the journey.
Navigating polyamory while parenting brings unique challenges that monogamous parents and child-free polyamorous folks don’t experience.
We deserve community and support that sees, understands, and validates all of our experience!
Learn more at https://www.jengerardy.com/polyamparenting
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1 hour, group size varies
Free community and support space for parents of gender queer kids to feel less alone in the struggle to defend our children's rights
To be clear: We affirm our childrens' gender identities and expressions as they communicate them to us. If you're struggling to understand your child's gender and want support in coming to acceptance, you're welcome. If you want to convert/fix/force your child to conform to their gender assigned at birth, this is not the space for you.
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We’re creating a nature-based program for elementary-aged kids who are still learning how to navigate friendships, big feelings, and group dynamics—but thrive best outside of classrooms and fluorescent lights. While children build confidence, flexibility, and connection through low-pressure outdoor activities, parents will gather nearby for facilitated support, tools, and real talk. This is not a drop-off program—it’s a shared experience designed to help families grow stronger, together.
Mandy guides the children's group: Mandy is a neurodivergent mom, educator, and coach who’s spent nearly 20 years navigating the parenting world with two brilliantly unique, neurospicy kids. Along the way, she's led youth programs, earned a master’s degree in education, and built a career helping families create calm, connection, and confidence—without the shame or shoulds. (bluetulip.ie.llc@gmail.com)
Jen facilitates the parent circle: Jen is a queer, polyamorous, neurospicy homeschooling mom, conscious parenting coach, and Healing Story Circle facilitator with 10 years of experience in helping outside the box families thrive and grow. She brings compassion, curiosity, and play to deep healing and transformation that brings the joy back to parenting and relationships. (healwithjeng@gmail.com)
Filling out this interest form will help us gauge whether there is enough interest to form a group in your area, as well as make sure it's tailored to be exactly what you need it to be. Please don't hesitate to reach out to us with any questions!
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Jen is available to present workshops and speak on a variety of topics, virtually or in person. Currently touring workshops are described at https://www.jengerardy.com/speaking, or get in touch to create a bespoke experience for your company, non-profit, organization, social group, or polycule! Media appearances and interview requests can be arranged by email at HealWithJenG@gmail.com